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What kinds of things can I come to counselling and psychotherapy
for?
Sometimes the issues are common dilemmas or difficulties we
all might face, and other times the challenges are of a more
particular nature. Counselling and psychotherapy can help you
with difficulties in many areas in your life. Some examples
are:
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achieving balance in your life
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finding meaning and purpose in your life
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sexual abuse and trauma
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eating difficulties
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addictions
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making lifestyle changes
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dealing with chronic illness or other health-related issues
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adoption related issues
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fertility related issues
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depression
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exploring questions of spirituality
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anxiety
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grief
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sexuality and sexual orientation
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relationship challenges
- gender
issues
So
how can this process actually help me?
You will be able to tell your story in a professional and supportive
environment. The therapist can guide you to understand what
really matters to you now. This process often helps clients
to see things more clearly. We then work together to make the
differences in your life that are important to you.
What
is psychotherapy and counselling?
Although there is much overlap between psychotherapy and counselling
it can be useful to identify the main differences. Counselling
tends to be a shorter process, which is problem focused and
deals more with day-to-day issues. Psychotherapy tends to be
a longer process and often explores how and why things have
become this way, which usually includes reflecting on our personal
history. Psychotherapy can help us to become newly conscious
of the patterns of how we think, feel and act. Psychotherapy
also often uses the relationship between the client and the
therapist as a valuable resource to reflect on wider relationship
patterns.
Does
the therapist tell anyone if I come to see you?
What is talked about during the session is confidential. Your
therapist will talk with you about this in more detail during
your first session.
What
does it cost?
The cost of a one hour session varies between therapists. Fees
range from $80 -- $120. Please discuss the fee with the therapist
of your choice. There are some situations where your counselling/psychotherapy
is subsidised. If you are on a disability allowance with WINZ
you can often claim a significant subsidy. If you are seeking
therapy as a result of sexual abuse, ACC may subsidise the bulk
of the fee. There are some insurance companies that reimburse
counselling and psychotherapy.
How
long does it all take?
Each session usually lasts between 50 to 60 minutes. Your therapist
will talk with you about how many sessions you need. Therapy
can be short, medium or long term.
Can
I bring a friend?
You are welcome to bring a support person. It can be helpful
to talk to your therapist about this.
When
are you open?
Hours of work vary with each therapist. Let your therapist know
your time restrictions. If your therapist can't accommodate
these he or she will try to find you a time with another therapist.
Where
do I find you?
The Bungalow is at 268 Mt Albert Road, Sandringham. This is
close to the intersection of Sandringham Road and Mt Albert
Road. There is plenty of off-street parking, and the phone number
is (09) 629 2399. The voice-mail system will guide you to the
therapist of your choice.
What
happens in the sessions?
This depends very much on the issue you bring and on your therapist's
individual style. Here are some examples of what may happen
in your counselling and psychotherapy session.
• If you are in a crisis which needs an immediate response,
your therapist will usually work in a very practical way to
help you plan how to manage the situation safely.
• If there is a problem to solve or an important decision
to make, you will be able to explore your options and choices
with your therapist.
• Sometimes, when we struggle with the way we think, feel
or act, it can be useful to explore underlying patterns or unresolved
issues. The process of talking through related life events will
help you to gain clarity and experience new ways of being.
• Each therapist will have his or her own individual style.
It can be useful to discuss your expectations, hopes or fears.
• Whatever the style or issue, you will be met with respect
and dignity.
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